Revan

Eh? What gives?

Changed my viewpoint, @Lovelyish.

I'll be 27 tomorrow. Honestly, I think I'm getting to the point of not caring if I lose my virginity. I'm still going to do the right thing, but if it never happens it never happens. More and more everyday I can't imagine myself doing the sex act, and even though I love this one woman in my life, I know that I can never be with her and that she puts me to shame in so many areas. She doesn't deserve someone like me.

Love him and support him with all you have. Being with a guy (or girl) who isn't a virgin makes no difference. I've covered this elsewhere, but as virgins, it's not profitable to be picky. Also, your fiance has had horrible things done to him. When that happens, it's hard to get off the road that a background like that can usually lead to.

I hope you're doing ok.

Yes.

I mean, depends on the woman driving the voice.

SCREEEEEEEE

Ok, where's my money? Lol.

I abandoned Jesus. I solely believe in Hashem now. I still believe he would rather humans waited to have sex before they are married to each other.

I WAS a Christian...lol. I believe in waiting though. You'll find him one day.

Well, it's Hmm. Well let me try and address your points one at a time, as briefly as I can. 1) Because there are plenty of quality women in the world that don't deserve to be passed over just because they have made a few mistakes. Not everyone will have shared your journey or your perceptions, but the mistakes they made and the experiences they had make up who they are today. I also believe that while as virgins, we certainly have a right to be picky, it ultimately isn't beneficial to be picky, for the reasons I said. 2) I'd draw on the fact that they love me now, and that I love them and am attempting to build a life with them. You can either ask that she disclose who she was involved with, or you can just elect to never bring it up. Being that it's generally a good idea to get an STI test done, the issue will come up sooner rather than later. 3) Basically someone who wasn't willing to be patient and wait. While I'm not opposed to women who have had multiple partners, I wouldn't want a woman who has a reputation for sleeping around. Also, while I am comfortable with the idea of dating a single mother, there's limits, and mine is no more than two children. However, when dating a single mom, you have to be patient and understanding with her, because her time is not really her own, and ultimately, you are not a priority. So you'll have to mature fast and just be patient. Anyway, hope this helps. If you have any questions, tag me, and I'll respond.