Buster Cannon

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  1. Has this week been completely hellacious for anyone else, or is it just me?

     

    *raises hand*

     

    Because of where I work (ANA), this Ebola thing has tripled the amount of stuff I have to get done.  I have to put in some hours today as well.  :(

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  2. That was a pretty good read. I will say this: she needs to be more upfront about her boundaries in the future. If you value WTM that much, you need to lay that out on the table at the beginning of the relationship. I think it would have saved her some trouble.

    Also, the story of boy #3 was upsetting to me. The guy's supposedly a good Christian with firm beliefs, yet he isn't loving enough to protect the lady that he's with. He sounded like a mysoginistic jerk if anything else. :/


  3. I have a YT channel that I use for mostly gaming stuff, but I figured I'd give the 'on camera' thing a shot.  I was kinda nervious and my perfectionist tendencies led to me doing several takes lol, but here we are - short and sweet:

     

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  4. I've always felt like there was a nice balance here; you've got the general waiting discussion areas which cover crucial topics but don't get too graphic, and on the other hand you have Viewer Discretion for...'those questions'.  I don't recall seeing anything that's goes into the line of being inappropriate outside of VD.  Besides that, the site is about information on waiting till marriage to have sex, so naturally sex is bound to be a topic that comes up here often. Even for younger folks like high schoolers, it's good for them to have a place to discuss the same stuff that they're hearing about from their peers/media/the locker room/etc.

     

    I dunno, I feel like with added censorship you'd just have all of the under-21 crowd like...

     

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  5. That feeling when an older guy at your church brags about the fact that you're a virgin WTM to other guys at church whenever he gets the chance.  I get that it's a compliment (and certainly much better than ridicule) but sometimes I'm like  :superwaiter:

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  6. From a biblical perspective, humans have been born sinful ever since the fall of Man where Adam and Eve ate the fruit. Humanity was perfect up until that point. The whole point of Jesus dying was to save humanity from that sinful nature that was introduced in that incident.

    That said, I believe that humans are inherently sinful at birth. No one has to teach a child to tell a lie in order to cover up something wrong that they've done, it comes naturally. Sure, we weren't originally created with the intent to sin, but the original temptation in the garden threw that out of the window.

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  7. Children having no freedoms, and then 100% freedom at 18 when they go off to college is what ruins them. All their life they've been told what to do, and now they have no one restricting them.

    The kids who typically go wild in college are the ones that were told "because I said so" whenever they asked why the should obey their parents' rules. I believe that explaining to the child WHY you aren't supposed to do certain things is just as important as telling them what to do.

    Take premarital sex for example. If the only thing your child knows about it is "don't do it", they'll probably end up doing it. However, if you have a dialogue with your child about the positives of WTM and the kind of landmines they'll avoid by doing so, they'll walk away with actual information, and the fact that you cared enough to explain it to them.

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