Honesty. Is it something you truly value from a woman? in Ask the Guys Posted October 13, 2014 · Report post Thank you for your thoughtful answer. I agree with finding the balance. That is sometimes difficult for me to do. I do have one question, though. The 'medical stuff' that you used as an example. Are you talking like female medical stuff? Or in general medical stuff? I tend not to share too personal of things, but there is one thing that I share with people because it could become obvious and, if they aren't warned ahead of time, can be kind of unnerving... I have seizures. The seriousness of them fluctuates, but I never know when I'm going to have one. So, I share that right away. Do you think that's ok? I do, but I'm curios about what others might think. I also agree with the personal experiences. I tend to not share that stuff unless someone asks, or we get to talking and the subject sort of presents itself. Emergency medical stuff, sure, especially if you present it as something you are trusting but not burdening them with. Many men like to be caring and protective and sometimes even the hero. It would be far better to tell them about it beforehand than try to explain after! A proper, caring-type guy would not mind you telling him that. I was thinking more of female medical stuff or idle discussions about past operations or procedures that are not highly relevant, but maybe that's just me.