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About TrueLoveWaitsAlways

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    I'm a Christian who loves to go to church and study God's word & pray. I'm in the choir at my church. I'm teaching myself the guitar. I like all types of music except heavy metal & rap. I write Christian songs & love songs. I love anything creative or artistic. I like to do art and crafts. I love working out & going to the gym. I'm waiting until marriage also for my first kiss!

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  1. 30 and getting a little worried

    I get impatient too. I'm 35 and still waiting. It's hard seeing other women younger than me getting married on my Facebook timeline while I'm still single. I pray everyday for my future husband & hope he does the same for me but I'm ready to meet him. It doesn't help reading other women's stories on how they met their husbands because I tend to think of all the situations happening to me, when God has His own way of bringing my future husband to me, that maybe different from all the testimonies I've read. All I know is I'm ready to meet and marry my future husband & hopefully he'll come sooner rather than later.
  2. Saving your first kiss too?

    I'm saving my first kiss for my wedding day.
  3. Christmas dream

    I had a dream last night that I was over my future husband's house for Christmas helping his family wrap presents. And at 6:00 pm we were going to leave with two of his I suppose they were his aunts to go to my house because I said you guys don't mind we have two dogs. I don't know if this is a clue on his name but when all his family were gathered around when it was time to open presents, they said look for Ruben's gift. Now I don't know if this is a clue on his name but that's what one of his aunts said. I love the little clues God gives me about my future husband, of course I'm not going to assume his name will be 'Ruben', but just that I has a dream about him is good enough for me.👰🎩ðŸ’
  4. My best guy friend

    I went to & read the beginning of finally a bride and I will be getting this book. But like the author, I'm gotten prophesies & just random people over the course of 4 years telling me I'm getting married soon. People even going as far as to invited themselves to my non-exist wedding! Even this year someone thought my class ring was an engagement ring. This is still going on.. Yes, I have been extremely wrong by jumping the gun a few time since I've gotten this information, because I'm excited. But the author in the article said something profound, she said let God have the pen & don't try to write the story yourself with every guy you meet, which was what I was doing. Naturally I want to know who my future husband is, but God doesn't work like that, so I have to pray God to settle my heart & not be anxious to know who he is, but trust God enough to know He knows who he is & well join us together when the time is right.
  5. My best guy friend

    Thanks for the article, I love reading her story about waiting. & I can relate because I'm a writer as well. Thanks for sharing the article. I understand what you are saying about my vision, not to hold on to tightly to it. But this vision was also a reassurance that God indeed has someone for me, which made my heart glad. I was wrong a few times too, just like the woman in the article, so I am also very cautious because I don't want to be wrong again. I just know my future husband can't come along if I'm holding on to a guy I have feelings for but is clearly not for me. That's my point. Even this guy friend says to find someone else & has even tried to help me in my pursuit by suggesting online dating on Christian dating sites. I just want to be careful that I'm not hindering my future husband from coming because I'm holding on to my guy friend. That's all, & in my heart I feel like I am, yet he IS a good friend. I don't know what to do. Seriously. Another factor is that I will be moving to VA in August 2014, so it's like is my future husband even in PA, because I won't be come August 2014. I have a lot of questions that need to be answered, I need to pray more I guess to have them answered. God gives me enough to encourage me to know my future husband is coming soon, but I don't know who or when. I feel like it's going to be soon though.
  6. My best guy friend

    Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. I should not settle. I actually had a vision/dream of what my future husband & future daughter will look like. I will attach pictures that match my vision I have of them. I feel hanging on to my guy friend is holding me back from meeting my future husband. But I don't know what to do? I just wish I could meet my future husband & that cut off all ties with my guy friend. But I don't know how God will work this out. I did stop taking to him for 3 years, I didn't meet anyone in between then so I kind of reconnected with him earlier this year. He like the fall back guy and that's not cool. I really wish I could meet someone else, maybe I will soon, it's just waiting & not thinking I have to run back to my guy friend every time. I want to meet my Christian skater boy future husband, the picture is down below of what he looked like in my dream/vision as well as what our future daughter looks like too based on the vision I had. I haven't met any guy who resembles him yet, but I know he is coming to me soon. It's gets me excited to know I know what he looks like, I pray that he God showed him a dream of what I look like, that's been my prayer for the longest as well. We shall see , prayerfully we will meet soon.ðŸ˜ðŸ˜˜ðŸ‘°ðŸŽ©ðŸ’
  7. My best guy friend

    I have this guy friend, we've been friend since 2005. Around 2009, I went through some things and ended the friendship. On May 26th of this year we reconnected, & he was so glad we did. He know EVERYTHING about me, as I know everything about him. He's the same age as me as well as a virgin like me. I fell for him hard, and our first date ever was on Valentine's day 2006 when he took me ice skating with a Rocky theme. It was very romantic.ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜˜ðŸ˜˜ The only major problem is he's not a Christian like me, he's agnostic. Ever since we reconnected, even though I thought nothing could happen between us after our first recent date at carabbas & a movie, I kind of changed my mind. It's very hard to think of being with someone else when this guy knows everything about me. I NEED a Man of God, a Christian guy, but no guy has approached me since, not a guy I've been interested in anyways. My guy friend isn't looking for a relationship right now, & I respect that, because although I want a relationship, if I'm honest with myself, I'm not quite ready myself. But he also left the option open for maybe later, he'll be ready for a relationship. I'm trust God's timing though, if he is who God has for me, God will work it out in his timing. I'm not waiting on my guy friend, I'm keeping my options open, if it's him it's him. But if God bring some other guy in my life that's cool too. It's just waiting that's all. My cousins told me the same thing, to let God work it out, if he is for you, God will make it happen in His timing, the hardest part of that is waiting on that timing.
  8. It's a funny story about my future engagement ring. I don't know if I was actually being propose to or what, but until this day, this ring has been on my mind for forever. I went into the hospital in 2005, 2009 & in January 2013, I can't remember if it was 2005 or in 2009, but anyway, I remember doing arts & crafts in the hospital when the guy I was sitting across from was painting a picture, I was watching him, then out of the corner of my eye I see this beautiful pink heart diamond ring, but he didn't say anything, & I didn't say anything, I just acted like I didn't see it, but I thought it was strange & now I can't just the image of that ring out of my head, I actually want my engagement ring to look like the ring I saw. Here's the best picture of the ring as I remembered it. I don't really know how God is writing my love story, in my 3 hospitalizations, God has showed me things like little clues about the love story He is penning, I can't see how it all connects just yet but I have bits & pieces of it in my mind. Like 4 years ago or so random people & people on my job were asking to be invited to my wedding, a wedding that was non-exist. Everywhere I'd turn I'd hear about weddings & marriage pertaining to me. Earlier this year, I stopped by my former job & my former boss asked if my class ring which was on my right ring finger was an engagement ring! So people are STILL asking so I KNOW it all has to happen soon, I just don't know when or to whom. 👰🎩ðŸ’
  9. Being Single

    The holidays are coming up, in which I love Thanksgiving & Christmas, but I always get depressed during this time of year because I'm single. It really sucks because I want to spoil a guy that loves me. I want to put my poetry/songs to use, I want to cuddle of the couch & watch Christmas movies. & with every year that passes and it doesn't happen I just get more depressed. Not to long ago I declared I wanted to be happy in my single state, but is so hard especially at my age being single, not to mention my birthday is in December so that's like oh boy another year older, no future husband in sight...😔😔😔 This year hasn't been all that great for me anyways, so I'm praying 2014 will be a better year. It's really hard being single during the holidays, I don't like that part, but I guess I'm with my family so that's cool. I guess. I've tried online dating sites, but I'm really not 100% keen on them, so I would delete my online profile after a few days on it. I just want to meet my future husband sometime soon. I know it's in God's timing, I secretly pray it's soon. Because as much as I love the holiday movies, the majority of them are about finding love, I want to find my love this season too.ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜˜ðŸ˜˜ðŸ˜˜
  10. Have you ever met a celebrity?

    I met Brandon Heath, Jeremy Camp, Jeff Deyo, Shaquille O'neal. That's all I can think of right now. But I been to a lot of concerts, but that isn't the question..
  11. What are you thinking about it?

    How I can be a professional songwriter & travel the world. Wondering if this job I interviewed for will call me back this week. My slight obsession with the UK, the UK band Little Mix and their accents, l love their accents especially Perrie's and Jade. I want an accent but don't all Americans do.
  12. What are your deal-breakers?

    Thought of more 1 more deal breaker Sexual/porn addictions/fantasies
  13. What are your deal-breakers?

    Here's mine.... Deal breakers Has kids from a previous relationship Not a virgin Not a Christian Uses any illegal substances Violent Swears Smoking Drinking My preferences Virgin Born-again believer ( reads God's word, prays, attends church regularly) Artistic (draws/paints, sings, plays an instrument, write songs) Loves to travel Has a steady job Good with money ( as in saving, tithing, etc) Loves children & wants a family Loves his own family/loves my family Romantic Educated Has a sense of humor
  14. I'm so glad I found this board, you just don't know. 😄😄😃 My question is it wrong for me to only want to marry a virgin? I got a comment on my facebook page from a guy that goes to my church that's not a virgin and said don't exclude the guys that aren't. He asked me out btw, I wasn't to keen so I didn't go out with him. Anyways, I'm saying God knows how inexperienced I am & I only feel that I would like to have someone like myself. My best guy friend is a virgin and my age, we casually dated for three years but he's wasn't and still not a Christian so nothing can happen between us. But maybe God put him in my life to say I can send you a virgin, you just have to wait on a Christian virgin. I mean my favorite testimony is Rebecca St James, & her husband waited for her too. I think that's so beautiful. Side note: Rebecca is pregnant now. 😄😄. Anyways, I don't want to feel like I'm wrong by non-virgins to want a virgin Christian guy, but they can't see it the way I can because that aren't in my shoes. I'm curious to her other virgins thoughts!
  15. Your Dream Guy !!

    My dream guy would be a Christian who goes to church regularly, prays & read the bible, is a virgin , is tall like 5'11, I'm 5'3. Loves dogs, who doesn't drink or smoke, Can make me laugh, wants children, who artistic either paints/drawing, is a singer/songwriter. Loves to travel, in the states & abroad. Physical : I have a thing for white guys & accents ( Irish, British, or Australian), blue or green eyes, brown or blonde hair. Hair like Harry Styles or Niall Horan from One Direction. That's pretty much my list! Btw, I had a dream about my future husband & saw what he looked like.