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  1. Wow this one keeps surfacing from the depths ,!

    Ok a lot of the above say 90% but also

    A partner who has a sexual past that is not nice. And they do not regret it ! They say its happened it was ok at the time so all right! Even plod on about it being part of what makes them what they are now. Yeuk.

    When of course do you break off the deal ?? Hey now that's hard !!! Especially if their are others depending on you .

    Baarrrrrrrrrrrr. Lol

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  2. If I may interject, I think certain things that are kind of unnecessary are acts like anal sex or some of the extreme S&M like pouring hot wax on someones back, using low level electrocution tools to generate a response, sexual methods that include strangling etc (hopefully you get the picture). I would think acts that are potentially dangerous and could kill the other partner is immoral. And for heterosexual anal intercourse the best pleasure would be for the guy and the most pain would probably land on the girl...unless they decided to switch O.O; it is also the riskiest due to high risk of tearing and pathogenic infections even if done "right". So I would put anal sex under the unnecessary category for pre- and post marriage and if you are religious there is an immoral basis. If you are not religious then there is the fact that anal sex could lead to an extremely painful experience for your partner so generally something unnecessary, shrugs the anus is just not suppose to be stretched that way...

    Helloee, interesting one hey perhaps it's the mad English. I have a very respectable couple of friends "married" and over a glass of wine she confessed to anal sex being her preference. From what I gather they are mostly into lots of lovey dovey stuff but now and again she likes to feel forced and that's her thing. So all in all their choice and it doesn't hurt anyone else ?

    I totally agree with the swinger/threesome stuff being wrong but just out of curiosity do people think its ok for that to be shared in just fantasy ? Col

  3. Happy when sailing: guys opinions are fine too :) Essentially I'm asking if your spouse wanted you to do something for your down there, would you?

    Ah interesting..... Ok yes if she wanted me to then yes of course all in the call of duty keeping my partner happy. If she wanted me to wax then it would be a general anaesthetic Lol lol

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  4. Hope you don't mind a boys opinion ? To be honest doesn't appeal, trim yes but shave nar. And at some time you will get bored with it and and I understand itches as it grows back aaaaah. Waxing I just cannot imagine this without picturing it as a cartoon sketch.

    All the best. Col.

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  5. Golly, ok personal opinion I'm happy with most things within marriage. I'm ok with raunchy, fantasy, and most things as long as to use a popular expression "your both reading from the same book". The most important thing is to keep a marriage fun.

    Second bit. Hmmmmmm ok skip actual "wants". Not the right section to list them !! Yes very very important to bash out all the desires ,wish list lol for when your wed. Hence the need for a long courtship.

    If there were things that one of you would want but the other didn't well within reason it depends what it was. Annoyed? nar just discuss the reasons why and understand. Perhaps just Christmas/birthday treats !! Or hey a glass of wine works wonders lol.......

    All the best, col.

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  6. Hello and welcome, From what I have seen so far this a great site and great people. Straight talking people which is lovely and take folk as they are. I have not been here for too long and I'm no spring chicken but I have learnt a lot about myself concerning religion and my opinions on promiscuity which has been amazing. Just wish I could turn back time.. Think I will stay straight for now though but hey who knows get my heart broken again " joke" lol lol. Hope my English humour does not offend....

    All the best, Col.

  7. He he. I like everything you have put here Josh truly. Good values, morals are a must. Give them every opportunity for their own character to flourish.

    However, the computer the Nintendo the cell phone are all things that are needed "in moderation" in this day and age. When you are both short of sleep then any distraction to give you 10 mins to hoover/wash up are wonderful, if your 13 yr old daughter walks to the shop/might need picking up from swimming early then a mobile phone makes it safer and so all in moderation but all in all guy good call. Col.

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  8. Helloee, well interesting one, I have biggish hands, Rough ish Well I thought hey I will take a picture of one of these hands and I might get an opinion, hey someone might be able to read my life line and tell me if I need to get on with life a bit quicker lol........ Read this post this afternoon as I was working away on my old floating bath tub !! Boat !! And at the time I was drilling a hole in a bulkhead and oops forgot to move my right hand from behind oooops came close to an additional piercing lol. So decided I would take a photo of my "unwounded" left hand and at home away I went. Well ever tried to take a nice picture of your own hand ? Wow it looked like one of a horror film. So tomorrow I will try with a delay on my camera and see if I look human. Col.

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  9. What motivates me is... Money. You can't function in this modern world without it and its been a big motivator for me to start doing better in school and taking my future seriously. A big thing that gives me hope is seeing the world begin to understand the need for change and that we may be around for another thousand years to come. And a thing that gives me great joy and no matter how bad things are a reason to carry on is... Nature : D the warm sunrise and colorful sunset, the lighting during thunderstorms jumping from cloud to cloud.

    Ooo and an obsession, I have an obsession for cars, my dad likes cars and got me interested in them and now it's an obsession, not new cars though mostly early to late 60's cars, sports cars from the 90's and cars from the 50's. My dad has a volvo from the 60's and a 90's sports car so my obsession is easy to have :DD

    Helloee, Ooooooo jus a word of caution on the money subject. I appreciate your opinion as the lack of money is drab and makes life harder. I have enough money to see me out without working another day in my life but it has not really given me true happiness or love. That's come from belief, having clear thoughts and a purpose in life. Other than that way to go guy !!!

    Ps as a driver to do well in studies etc also cool.

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  10. Hmmm interesting one, as Vince says v personal. I'm q stocky so love the out doors stuff, digging holes etc However I love .............sewing. Please don't think less of me lol. However on a practical point I have made all the covers,awnings etc for my boat saving me thousands of pounds. Also adore house work in particular cleaning the kitchen and I have a pinny eeeek