Poseidon

Hello all. Well its 23:10 here now and so just an hour to go till New year. Hope you all have a great night and great 2014. All the best. Col .

Phew

Sounds like a bit of a plonker. Steer clear Id say Col

Howdee from the UK

Some great points here chaps. I once had a girl say to me "surely you would prefer a feisty girl". Meaning surely id like a girl experienced! Yeuk. Whack me over the head to forget my past mistakes and Im comfy. ,!,! Happy Saturday. Col.

Im on board my boat tomorrow hoorah.

Aw id say stick with it Mr Right is just around the corner. All the best,, Col

*I define "underage sex" by those under the age of 18 Support this 100%.

Ah what the heck. Good clevage. Then I get around to the person good morals. He he happy Tuesday.

It is it is it is it is it is it is IT IS. Trust an old guy. Good luck and enjoy the wait.

Darn I hope not. Thinking about tractors is a bit weird? Now a Jaguar thats talking. All the best. Col.

Yes its a great question indeed. Ok my angle. To cover the rape point. That would not be his/ her fault and so one should help another get over this. However I so agree with Vince on attitude we could almost write the same script. I do though have a few odd whims on the subject that are me. Possibly a bit crazy? Could be considered controlling but come about from my own past. Id desperately want to respect the lady. Here we go :~ I have had a speckled past before I grew up. I regret it thats right and proper. I am willing to accept a lady with a past but expect the same regret. If she is proud of her past, think its ok to have a sexual past, respect those chaps she has had sex with them thats a deal breaker. Id find it easier to come to terms with her having a sexual partner where the sex was protected (condoms) Perhaps thats another "me" freaky thing I don't know perhaps someone could comment. Ok enough for now before I go back to my rocking chair.

Yup good with this

Aw I really would not lose any sleep about your dreams. Hey joke there?? Blooming British humour. If I think about something when I go off to sleep then I dream about it with a few fantasy bits added on. I don't think its anything sinister. May even be a way our maker has decided to teach us or test us ? Enjoy I say. Take care. Col xx

I want to drive my car but had a glass of wine

And love you for picking em up monkey xx

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Hello from the UK. Col.

Mine had been on the pill for someone else before me but she does not think its ok for me. Makes me feel very Special......

Three too

Hello, And welcome from the "blustery". UK. All the best. Col.

Happy Christmas everyone its 00:00 here and all is well All the best. Col.

Hello and welcome, I have done a fair bit of work on this subject chap and would be happy to help/talk. However its 20 mins to midnight and so 20 mins to Christmas day so catch up over the next cpl of days. Till then chill out and enjoy your partner for whats good now and the joy of the season. Stay cool as no good comes from hasty decisions. Happy Christmas. Cheers. Col.

Yep shy is good I'm a natural protector and enjoy being the provider and have been lucky that All my life I have been able to be just that. Col

Hmmm interesting, Ok for me Im happy for the girl to take the initiative and kiss away. However I just noticed that you mention first dates. For me the first couple of dates are going to be kiss free unless things go very very well and a kiss good night is appropriate. Differing from a lot of people on here I am ok with a girl who has kissed and been "close" with others before me. Id prefer her previous to be non sexual but open minded if her attitude is right. Only as I would expect her to get from me in return. Ps a goodnight peck kiss is fine. Proper kiss is different he he . Col xx