Natureboy

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About Natureboy

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  • Birthday 07/18/1988

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    Albuquerque New Mexico
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    Fishing, Boating, Weightlifting, Hiking,Video Games and Kayaking.

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  1. What bothers me is how men who are virgins are often slammed so viciously for lacking experience in ONE area. Just one area. There are also really nasty stereotypes of virgin men, including mama’s boys, basement dwelling young men with neckbeards or young men who are afraid of women. I know plenty of non virgin men who are really immature and not grown out of their frat boy immaturity levels probably because of their over-inflated ego over getting laid. Being a virgin doesn’t mean that I am still a boy like the 40 Year Old Virgin portrays virgin men. But I really dislike the nasty stereotype that people in their mid twenties and older who are still virgins “somehow have something wrong with them.†Being devirginized probably wouldn’t change anything over night other than the fact of me not being a virgin.
  2. I would NOT be ok with never getting married and having sex. It is just natural and human to have that desire. I never met anyone who desired permanent singleness (I'm sure they exist). Statistically, most of us will be married at some point (which is a good thing), but it may not be when we want to (which can be annoying). If I reach an older age with no marriage prospects I WILL be very disappointed because I didn't get to experience the ultimate physical/emotional connection that God created. Hopefully, I will end up married eventually. With that being said, I'd rather stay a virgin than have meaningless one-night stands because I know that won't be fulfilling. It sure as hell won't make me more of a man. I want to look back at my first time and smile, not frown.
  3. http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationships/why-dont-guys-my-church-ask-women-dates#wtU3pwujL26dr3rk.99 What do you guys think about this article? I found it on my newsfeed on facebook. Do you agree or disagree? Is this a problem in your community?
  4. Single Life

    I'm 26 and have been single all my life as well. I was focused on other things and I just finished grad school in December.
  5. 50 Shades of Gray

    Hey guys, What do you all think about that movie "50 Shades of Gray" coming out on Valentines Day?
  6. I enjoyed his article, but it was kind of a punch in the gut at the same time. I'm in grad school right now and I've got a few years before I hit thirty, but why not start preparing for it now? All of my friends on campus say don't get married before thirty. They are all cohabiting. However, I never agreed with that ideology. One of my friends has been cohabiting with his girlfriend for a couple of years and he has no intent on marrying her. And he was homeless before she let him move in. I'm not single because I want to play the field. I just haven't found the right person yet, but I am searching. I admit I fell for that "one" myth when I was younger because I watched alot of Disney movies. I do admire his blunt honesty because I think its needed in our culture of extended adolescence. I guess I'm one of the exceptions he mentioned because if I met a godly woman who was right for me I wouldn't hesitate to get married.
  7. I just read this article posted on facebook written by Matt Walsh. He's pretty blunt. Do you agree or not? Should young twenty-somethings get married? http://www.theblaze.com/contributions/hey-young-people-nows-the-time-to-get-married-and-have-kids/
  8. Halloween

    How do you guys feel about halloween? http://m.christianpost.com/news/kirk-cameron-on-halloween-christians-should-have-the-biggest-party-on-the-block--128345/ https://newspring.cc/articles/is-it-wrong-to-celebrate-halloween
  9. Lecrae

    Lecrae is my favorite rapper. I especially like his "Good, Bad, Ugly" song. I usually listen to rap from the 90's or early 2000s. Rap music nowadays sucks. Although I do like Eminem's new song about his mother.
  10. I'd say let the guests talk more. The length of time on podcasts is fine (around 20-30min) and I don't mind the rambling. (just keep it funny ) Here are some future topics I would like to hear: The stigma of being an older virgin Singleness in the church Dealing with criticism about waiting Feeling like you're missing out on youthful sex When everyone is getting married except you Double Standards in Society PUAs Pop Culture and Hip-Hop Cohabitation You can probably merge some of these. Thats my input.
  11. Do you think our society should encourage younger marriages? http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2014/08/top-10-reasons-marrying-young/
  12. Keep Her Guessing

    Ditto.
  13. What is your ethnicity/national identity?

    I am 90% African American and 10% Native American. My mom's last name is Cloud (which is probably an Indian name).
  14. I am heavily attracted to cute modest girls with an intelligent and bubbly personality. I like gamer girls who are not nerdy looking and with a slender figure. Tattoos are a turnoff for me and I don't like girls who dress provocatively. Slight tomboys are also attractive like cowgirls or anglers, but not too much. I'm also attracted to long haired brunettes or black-haired girls. And some curves wouldn't hurt.
  15. New guy

    Welcome to the site. Crap, I thought people waited over there. I guess pop culture has spread worldwide.