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  1. That is a random question but I'm just curious. ^-^
  2. Youtube

    Does anyone on here have a youtube channel? Random but curious.
  3. I personally couldnt because it would just be too much temptation. Short but blunt, haha.
  4. Im thinking in my mid-twenties, but if a "suprise" happens then it happens. lol.
  5. Why is it that it is just us females that have to dress appropriately? I personally dont think its right to be wearing a string on your personal areas, but why is it always us? Its a "stero type" that women have 'low-libido' and we dont lust when we see a guy in tight clothes or a bathing suit or even appropriate clothes? Thats so wrong! I havent lusted for another guy since Ive been in a relationship, but I know that if he wore tight clothes around me, I wouldnt just be focused on his face. My point is, is that guys and girls both need to be thinking about how their clothing might make someone think or affect someone else. If we dress appropriately and someone lusts for us then it isnt our fault, no we dont control anyones tboughts but we are capable of influencing them.
  6. How do you feel about being called "hot?"

    Personally I like being called hot once in a while, its a confidence boost for sure. Lol. But I know my boyfriend so when he says it, I know he isnt calling me his "sex object." If you dont know the person well, Id say it could be viewed as them calling you a "sex object." I do enjoy being called beautiful, what girl doesnt!? haha.
  7. What is your view about gamer guys?

    A guy playing video games is like a girl doing her nails for 6 hours (no joke, personal experience). Its a stress reliever! Now if my man played video games 24/7 Id be annoyed, but I dont care if he does! I even bought him some game stuff for Christmas. haha. I dont believe its wrong as long as its not excessive. For instance, buying something is fine but excessively buying can lead to a lot of issues!
  8. Men and crying.

    My boyfriend cried in front of me before but he is ussually very good at holding it in, I lost my cousin in a tragic way and he was able to hold everything in at the funeral. I dont get how you guys do it. haha. Testosterone?
  9. Dressing up and makeeeeuppp!!!

    I personally deal with red-noticeable rosacea and some acne, blackheads, and scars on my face so I do wear makeup, if I dont, I get told how red I am and it makes me feel insecure. I dont want to use it as a way to "cover natural beauty" but I dont like it when Im talking to someone and all they are focusing on is how my face is and then comment about it. I love dresses. Lol. Ive never been on an actual date with my boyfriend but I know when we have our first date that I want to wear flattering but appropriate dress!
  10. OMG! Help

    I asked my boyfriend out over four years ago, I know its hard but just because it "cultural" for him to ask you doesnt mean it has to be that way. I hope it all works out <3
  11. Why do girls go to public restrooms in groups?

    Oh and the whole couch thing is true! Sometimes I do want someone with me cause I get scared to be alone because I feel like someone could just grab me. But the only person Im not embarrased to hear me in the bathroom is my boyfriend so that never works out. haha.
  12. Why do girls go to public restrooms in groups?

    Honestly I dont like it when my friends wanna go in the bathroom with me haha! Im like thinking I have to pee go away!
  13. Dont want a wedding?

    Thank you all for your wonderful responses! I am sincerely thinking on all the options you've given me and I know that it will all work out for my good, as well as for all of your relationships, weddings, and finding the perfect man/woman will work out good for you <3 again thank you all very much and I really appreciate it! Hey I already created unicorns. That is all.
  14. Hello. (: I'm sorry I've been gone for a while, I really have no good excuse for it other than I went through a phase of wanting to ignore the thought of waiting till marriage (not this website). But I hope you all are doing very well and I have been checking posts off and on<3 Onto the topic! My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married when I'm eighteen (which is in less than a year). I know it sounds crazy and many people are normally like "YOUR LIFE ENDS WHEN YOU GET MARRIED!" I've been dating him for over four years and I KNOW without a doubt that I want to be with him. But the longer we wait to get married, the less I desire a real wedding. Its not because "I'm not as in love with him as I was" NOT the case whatsoever, but it is getting severely hard and pretty dangerous to wait extra years. I don't want to sound like I'm ONLY marrying him for sex, if that was the case I wouldn't still be a virgin. But I realized that if we wait to have a real wedding, we may not be able to get married till I'm 19-20 (or older). I am not at all worried about how things will turn out, I'm just curious to know if I'm weird for not desiring a wedding that much. I have nothing against a wedding or anyone who wants one or a big wedding, but the situation I'm in now has proved to me that I don't need a wedding to make our marriage last. But for our relationship to stay pure and for our marriage to be blessed, I know that a wedding might be way out of the picture. Its also extra money for our home, etc lol. My conclusion is, is that we are thinking about just getting a marriage license and have our own celebration.. lol as long as I'm with him I don't care if we don't have a huge wedding. But am I weird for not wanting one? Since every girl normally wants one. Also, if my family knew our plans to marry when I'm 18...uhm this might be the last time you guys hear from me. Okay so not that bad, but REALLY BAD!
  15. Dont want a wedding?

    Your response like made my day! Thank you! @mstrjosh
  16. Thank you @Sarita and @Alex992 ) my boyfriend and I have set boundaries many times before but Ive realized how serious it is to go through with them, all your responses encouraged me to really talk to him about it again and I did. We have boundaries set and we are both really serious about fulfilling them this time. Thank you for your encouragement and kind words, it really has helped me and I appreciate it very much.
  17. Im probably going to sound like a bad person, but just hear me out. Lately, my boyfriend and I havent been taking our commitment to stay pure until marriage very seriously. Its sad to say but Ive been feeling less and less guilty after we passionately kiss or touch, and so has he. We keep talking about it and trying to figure out what to do, we know what we need to do but we always get caught up in what "feels good" (if that makes sense). Its so hard when I see couples that have been dating two months and shes pregnant, and we've been together over four years and the desires are worse than ever before. We dont want to lose our virginity or keep compromising one anothers purity. I also hate knowing that what we do is displeasing to God, I hate taking advantage of His forgiveness. Im not really sure if Im posting this for advice or just someone to talk to but Ive been in a dark ditch of struggling and being ashamed of myself for so long. ):
  18. @Dasboy1 You are very correct in what you've said! Its like when somebody apologizes so many times that the meaning of it is completley lost. Thank you, Im almost seventeen so @LonelyKnight unfortunately we cant get married without consent from my parents and my parents wouldnt agree to do so. He is older than I though and we talk about marriage and how badly we want to(NOT just for sex) but ir really is getting dangerous. So asap! Lol. Idc if anyone thinks im crazy! Thank you both for your words though , it is encouraging and helpful.
  19. Honestly, I'm writing on this forum because I need someone to talk to. If I was to tell anybody (but my boyfriend) about any sexual feelings or almost-sex I've had, I would probably get judged or not understood. My boyfriend and I have been dating four years, we started off our relationship very bad. We've never had sex but we've made out and felt one another (not extreme but not good either). We have become addicted to kisses (whether pecks or more). Its like a drug and we are both struggling. We are both virgins so sex is a big curious issue for both of us, we want to feel the pleasure but know its wrong and the severe consequences. Not only the consequence of sin and pregnancy. So we WANT to wait and are going to but the will to wait has become increasingly weaker. I'm writing because we were together yesterday and things went farther than they have. We've done worse but our feelings for one another are so strong that it I knew it was going to turn into something if we didn't stop. I'm ussually the one that has a harder time not being "horny" if that makes sense but I was terrible and tempted him and next thing I know I was on him blah blah blah, dont wanna give all the details. Somehow we stopped but we've done things like this so many times I feel horrible. We knowingly do dirty things and lose self control. I'm so tired of it, its controlling me and I just want to be free from this.
  20. Honestly, being in love has been incredibly difficult to explain. But yesterday I was looking at my boyfriend (not inappropriately) and I began to realize how strongly protective I am of him; how I've never felt so protective over anything or anyone else before. I've never loved someone so strongly and want to share everything with that person. I haven't ever desired to be with someone everyday and at all times, I'm usually the type of person that likes to be alone. That is probably a really dry response lol.
  21. Can't Control Myself?

    Thank you for the encouragement @AlexeiZ! much appreciated.
  22. Pressure to do more in life?

    Have you been pressured to do more with your life than you'd like? Now I'm not speaking from a lazy aspect of "I don't want to work." But the aspect of being a low-key person. I am not a boring person but I really am not one who is a big vacation go-er or looking for a huge career that will change the world. I'm a girl and what Id like to know is if you have ever been pressured to do something you don't want to from family or friends? What I'm getting to is that, I really have the desire to marry my soon-to-be fiance in a few years and have a family when we feel our marriage is strong enough to handle children. I am not interested in becoming an actress, teacher, dancer, etc. There's NOTHING wrong with any of that but I have no interest in it. Is it bad that, that's what I really long for? I know this is a "waiting till marriage site" so don't think I want to get married just so I can have sex with my husband. No that not the case, not saying that I wont like to do that but I am coming from a point of life in general. Until I'm able to get married, I do want to have a job and save money, etc. But people in my life think I'm just gonna get married young and be all dumb and not use wisdom. Yes I'll make mistakes but is it so terrible that this is what I desire?
  23. What is your #1 hobby?

    Is it bad that I dont know? haha!
  24. Not one bit! I am honestly proud that my boyfriend and I can say we are virgins.