Candyhall

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About Candyhall

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  • Birthday 08/29/1985

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    Female
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    Florida

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  1. Settling

    Yes, I do sometimes worry that I might settle so that I can hurry up and get married. No, it is not so that I can hurry up and have sex. Although I do look forward to having sex one day (and lots of it ), the main thing that I look forward to in my future marriage is sharing myself and my life with someone else.
  2. Where do WTM's hang out?

    At home on their computers at 4am, perusing wtm forums
  3. Loneliness

    YES!!! Could not have put it better myself.
  4. How do you maintain hope?

    **Joins in beating dead horse** I, too, have felt the very same way about never finding "the one". It scares the crap out of me that there is a possibility that I will never marry. That is something I just cannot accept. I want a husband and I want a family. I'm 28 now. I can't even imagine going another 10+ years alone. Everyone around me is getting married and having children. I know, I know, I shouldn't compare myself to others. But it is really difficult when I see other people that are younger than me and have already married and started having a family. I feel like I am being left behind. It sucks when your friends and family members all have someone and you are still alone. Being a third wheel is not my idea of a great time. Ok, that sounds like a lot of complaining and insecurity, but I also have faith. There are a few passages in the Bible that give me hope: Jer 29:11 Psa 37:4 I get weak sometimes and just feel like giving up (on love, not waiting). But then I come to my senses and just tell myself to keep working on making ME the best I can. Even when it feels like it, God has not forgotten about me. He knows the desires of my heart. He is faithful. He said that it is not good for man to be alone. I am holding Him to that
  5. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIKE!!!

    Happy birthday Mike!!!
  6. Haha, so cute!! We have an elderly couple at my church that just celebrated their 71st anniversary
  7. What are you majoring in?

    Nursing
  8. How many piercings do you have?

    Only one in each ear. And that's all I want. No tattoos either. But I don't mind a guy to have tattoos or some piercings.
  9. I don't even want to think about the idea of never getting married >.<
  10. Vasectomy as birth control

    Would any of you guys ever consider having a vasectomy done as a means of birth control? Vasectomies are reversible and highly effective as a means of birth control. I really don't want to take birth control when I get married. There are so many risks & side effects associated with female birth control, and I am not ok with that. I just wonder how many guys would be open to this idea.....
  11. Wedding vows

    It will be traditional vows for me.
  12. MUSIC!

    Elvira by The Oak Ridge Boys Sorry guys, I couldn't resist
  13. Fave Girl Hairstyles

    Yay for long hair Not yay for straight hair My hair is waist-length, but it is naturally very curly.
  14. One night after I caught an episode of "The Virgin Diaries", I realized that there are other people like me, people who are waiting until they are married to have sex. So I did a Google search for "waiting until marriage" and wtm.org was one of the top three results. What really impressed me about wtm.org was the celebrity section. I was shocked to find so many well-known celebrity waiters. The deal was sealed when I stumbled into the forums. It was so refreshing to know that there are so many others like me who are waiting, but are free to talk about their views, express opinions, ask questions, discuss fears, expectations, etc. I think I joined immediately, lol You guys rock and I love being a part of wtm.org
  15. love languages?

    6 Words of Affirmation 12 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 8 Acts of Service 2 Physical Touch