Hello everyone my name is J Montgomery and I have promised myself to wait till marriage. I first made this decision during my Junior year in high school (I just graduated a month ago to give you guys an idea of my stage in life) I was hearing people talk about losing their virginity and I felt as though that wasn't me. Now Im not saying I'm above them in any way, Im just saying knowing all the risks that occur with intercourse and how I view my body and how I view marriage I decided I wanted to wait and lose it to my wife.
To give you guys a little insight, Im a weightlifter. I say weightlifter and not bodybuilder because my goal is not get massivly huge and be this freak but to have a ripped lean physique. As some of you might have guessed I am also a member on the bodybuilder forums and a couple months ago became part of this movement called No PMO (No Porn, Masterbation, Orgasm) and the goal is 90 days, but my goal is 90 days plus. I first started in March and failed a few times and this current cycle I am on started on June 1. My milestone so far was last cycle before I relapsed I went 35 days, so this time around I am more focused than ever to complete my goal. I was wondering if any of you on here were also doing this because I have had some pretty sweet effects from this. For example my voice appears to be getting deeper and I have more confidence.
So far I've told my closest friends my decision and they were real supportive. The mentioned that they had already lost theirs but would support me and be there if I need them for anything.
It is nice to meet a communty that shares the same views as me and I can't wait to get to you know you all