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Isn't sex supposed to be fun and playful, instead of what sex is shown in porn?
Jgotmilk replied to DHZ's topic in Ask a Successful (Married) Waiter
Also, I hope married sex involves eye contact, because eyes are the windows to your soul. So, your souls are connecting and as your bodies connect. I also hope that there is love and kindness and sincerity in my spouse's face, when we do make love. Since, I'm sentimental, I'll probably say, "I love you" and "You're beautiful" a lot since, I find emotional connection very sexy. But, that's just me though. -
How should I deal with the people who try to convince me that waiting is stupid?
Jgotmilk replied to Bette's topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
Vince! You're a genius! I needed to read this post for sure! Bette, I agree with what most people have said. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about being a virgin. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm a 34 year old virgin and there's nothing wrong with that. I know people shouldn't "slut shame" but they also shouldn't "virgin shame" either. I believe respecting people's personal journeys no matter what's in their past. Last night, I was in a social situation where people were asking me questions about my sexual history. I said, "I'm not comfortable answering those questions." I left it at that. It's up to you when and to what extent you want to be honest about your virginity or waiting till marriage decision. I've found that I have friends who are very supportive of me waiting. I've found that when I've revealed my being a virgin to some people, they literally freak the frack out about it. They visibly look uncomfortable. They get judgemental and sometimes, flat out mean, like they think something's wrong with me. So, I actually pick and choose who I reveal my status with. My best friends are very supportive of me waiting. My acquaintances, I don't tell because I don't feel comfortable telling them. I want to end on a positive note. You'd be surprised who will be supportive of you waiting. So, just trust that you can find friends who will support you. I have a friend who has a promiscuous past and she's very supportive of me waiting and prefers that I wait ironically, lol. I actually think it's the sweetest thing in the world that me waiting is more important to her sometimes, than it is to me. lol. Yeah, good luck to you. Keep waiting! I feel all of us Waiters are doing the right thing! -
Thanks for sharing. Hi.
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How to deal with my Christian boyfriend's porn addiction?
Jgotmilk replied to Bashful_dove48's topic in Religious Topics
Whoops, I suck at embedding videos (lol). Here's links to the videos: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAbUtrwYETg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU -
How to deal with my Christian boyfriend's porn addiction?
Jgotmilk replied to Bashful_dove48's topic in Religious Topics
I'd say try to show some compassion towards your boyfriend because how hard porn addiction can be to kick. I also empathize with your hurt over his addiction and his slip ups. Here's two other interesting videos: <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/uAbUtrwYETg" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/wSF82AwSDiU" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe> -
How would you react as a man if a girl started to pursue you?
Jgotmilk replied to Geraldine's topic in Ask the Guys
Vince, have faith! I see a beautiful wife in your future! -
I do like the occasional really cold beer. Since, my last name is Scottish and my best friend wants me to get in touch with my Scottish roots, I do drink Scotch sometimes (but only for historical purposes). lol I think socially drinking, responsibly is ok. But, I'm an adult and am of age. I was straight edge until I was 24 years old (i.e. I didn't drink alcohol til I was 24). Then, in my mid to late 20's I started socially drinking when I lived in a Catholic community house where they liked to drink alcohol. (go figure).
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When to bring up you are waiting
Jgotmilk replied to RdTripgirl's topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
I agree with GodsPhysicist. I say either wait until the topic of physical intimacy comes up or wait until the 3rd date to bring it up. I think the first date is too soon to bring it up. In my experience, the first date is more about talking about your favorite books, movies, interests, etc. Intimacy doesn't really come up. I do recommend bringing it up before any commitments to being exclusive are made (i.e. if who you're dating wants to be exclusive/monogamous) then, that way they have all the information before deciding to make a commitment to you. Hope that helps. -
I am a Non-Virgin trying this out and hoping for a better relationship
Jgotmilk replied to Neothinker's topic in Introduce Yourself
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My Video About Waiting Until Marriage
Jgotmilk replied to Jgotmilk's topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
Hi folks, here's a direct link to my Kickstarter campaign if you wanted to take a look : https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1335851532/geek-loves-punk-comedy-about-a-lesbian-geek-and-he Any contributions would be greatly appreciated. You can give $1 to $1,000,000...you know, in case there's any millionaires on this website. -
My Video About Waiting Until Marriage
Jgotmilk replied to Jgotmilk's topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
Kickstarter notified me that someone from this website gave me a pledge. Thank you so much!!!! I also thanked you through Kickstarter!!! Happy Waiting folks!!! -
My Video About Waiting Until Marriage
Jgotmilk replied to Jgotmilk's topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
Thanks Vince!!!! You're the best!!! Hugs!!! -
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My Video About Waiting Until Marriage
Jgotmilk posted a topic in Topics About Waiting and/or Relationships
Hi folks, Mike posted an article about me which was really kind of him. He's super busy. So, he forgot to include the most important part of the article which was a special youtube video that I made for this website. Essentially, in this video, (in a nutshell), I spend a lot of the video kissing heterosexual people's behinds (lol). So, enjoy!! But, also the video is about having pride in who you are when you decide to wait until marriage!! Enjoy this awesome two minute video and then pat yourself on the back. Here's the link that will take you to youtube: I'm happy to answer any questions that folks might have. Thanks. -
Any other Warhammer 40K or Fantasy nerds out there..........
Jgotmilk replied to ArtsyGal's topic in General Discussion
Isn't J.R.R. Tolkien basically the Godfather of fantasy?