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  1. Sex was meant for one man, and one woman inside of a marital relationship. If I did disobey the Lord's decree in this matter by having premarital sex, I would certainly never have sex again with any other person. If the man I had sex with decided not to marry me, I would live a life of celibacy.
  2. I don't believe in having sex outside of marriage, and I'm perfectly fine with not getting married for a long time, if ever. To me, the work that's put into a relationship is way more trouble than any perceived benefit of getting to have sex. Some day the Lord may put a man in my life who is worth the effort of marriage, but until then I'm not too fussed about it
  3. Baby Daddy

    Eh as I've mentioned before, I work for a lawyer so I see a lot more of this stuff than most people do. Yeah, you get your odd parent who is out for vengeance but I'd say 8/10 times when a parent goes after another parent for child support it's because of a change of circumstances that warrants a change in the level of support. It's okay to fear the situation, of course, but you're a lot less likely to run into that problem than you think you are
  4. Baby Daddy

    Fair enough I still have many problems with your opinion, but it is an opinion that you are entitled to have and arguing with you about it won't do us any good.
  5. Baby Daddy

    You said, and I quoted, "It would not work if her kids refused to see me as their father." That sounds like an expectation to me. And I'm not accusing you of anything in regards to having a detrimental effect on the mother/child relationship, I'm simply pointing out a different way of looking at the issue.
  6. Baby Daddy

    The parent with custody of the child *is* entitled to reasonable support from the noncustodial parent based on their respective incomes. It's not bad for the custodial parent to expect the noncustodial parent to share responsibility for the child they created together. Also, if you're dating a guy who doesn't want to pay or tries to avoid paying his 17% then you are dating a loser.
  7. Baby Daddy

    I'm sorry, but I'm gonna have to call you out on that. Why should her kids see you as their father, especially if you come into their lives when they're older? Just because you love their mom, does not mean you automatically win their trust. I would much rather have a stepchild be suspicious of me and make me win them over than have them immediately accept me as their mother. It's indicative of an emotional instability in the child to quickly attach emotionally to the person one of their parents is dating, and it also places a huge burden on the relationship. You could easily become stuck in a position of - "Dang, this relationship is kind of sucking, but I don't want to leave because these kids really look at me as their dad and I don't want to hurt them." Far better for a child to hang back for fear of being injured than for them to jump into a parent/child relationship with arms wide open. To me, expecting a child to accept you as a parent before marriage is akin to expecting your partner to have sex with you before marriage.
  8. Sure, why not? I've actually done this before, and while none of the people ended up being love matches for me (one guy even started texting me and pressuring me for bad photos... blecchhhhh), it was still always an experience and a good way to grow in confidence and social skills
  9. Celebrity Crush?

    I approve of this entire list. Especially the last two.
  10. It's perfectly possible. I know this from personal experience, as well as from my belief that our Lord and Savior can make anything possible.
  11. Ladies, would you lie to spare a BF's feelings?

    Texting to me is like a demon when it comes to interpersonal relationships. As you said, it makes things so hard to interpret. Good for you for having the courage to speak with her face to face on the topic!
  12. Greetings and Praise Jesus!

    Praise Jesus indeed. It is great that you are so bold with your faith.
  13. Does WTM lead to rushed marriages?

    I don't think it's rushing as long as you know in your heart the person you're marrying is the one the Lord wants for you to be with!